“The senior citizen in my Mom”
Before she had a kidney stone problem which led to her death, my Mom was the treasurer of the senior citizens chapter in our locality. Other than that, she embodied the entire elderly group. Never to shy away from any activity, always first on the dance floor at the beat of the first note, she was the pom-pom girl of the old and grey.
Yes, she was one of a kind so people like me will just have to do it differently to stay healthy and happy.
Staying healthy and happy:
Barring the effects of illness, our brains and bodies will undoubtedly reflect the onset of advanced years. Forgetfulness and lapses in memory, lack of focus and interest in a lot of things are a few manifestations of a brain grown tired after all those years of working for a living. Muscles start to soften, strength deteriorates, huffs and puffs are all that’s left with our stamina. And if our brains and bodies are not given the revving up, albeit, in different ways, they will soon erode and waste away until we reach the end-of-life point.
In a study done by the National Institute of Aging and the Journal of American Medical Association, it was shown that the difference between a relatively healthy 90 year-old person and that of a bed-ridden 70 year-old is lifestyle. Elderly people who are both mentally and physically active tend to live longer, and with a very high quality of life.
The following are simple things to exercise the elderly’s brain and body:
1. Do crossword puzzles at night:
This a good exercise to keep brain cells active and continuously creating connections with other each other. Don’t get discouraged with your lack of vocabulary. Very soon it will grow and things will be easier and more fun;
2. Learn something new:
Engage in online business and there is never a shortage of learning something new each day. If one is not into it, learn a new language or carpentry or needle-work. The Internet is never in shortage of self-learning “How To….”
3. Learn a hobby:
I am a late photography enthusiast. No, not the point-and-shoot digital cameras flooding the market but the digital SLR (single lens reflex). If you think it is easy, try getting a reasonably decent picture of anything in diminishing light in Manual mode. The feeling of satisfaction of getting one makes my neurons happy beyond compare.
4. Join bingo, bridge or card clubs:
Study after study have shown that people who socialize a lot live longer. The feeling of belonging is good for the soul and body.
5. Exercise:
This is something an elderly should never do without. It can cover a very wide spectrum of physical activities from gardening, walking, swimming or competitive sports. The tennis club I belong to is good both for the body and mind. The ribbing one gets for a lost game can offset a saint’s composure.
In a coffee shop I frequent, is a group of five or six elderly women. They come together each afternoon to do their own “chatter.” I dare not eavesdrop on what they are talking about but by the happy look on their faces, they must have a helluva lot of good things to talk about.






